Mar 11, 2016

Is Porn A Distraction For You ??

 
Well, take a look at your life. Put your life into certain categories, I'll make some for you.



Personal situation: Are you happy with where you are in life, or where you think you are going. Do you have any goals you are trying to achieve? Do you wake up everyday looking forward to the day, or do you wake up everyday miserable and looking forward to the next distraction. When you look in the mirror, do you like the person you see. Do you unresolved problems from the past you aren't willing to face?

There are so many factors here, you really need to sit down by yourself for a while, and just reflect on yourself. Perhaps just lay on your bed with a pen and paper, and write down what you think of yourself at the moment, be brutally honest, then after that, add ways you think you can work on those problems.

Social: Are you happy with the friends you have, do you motivate each-other to do cool stuff, or do you bring each-other down. Do you connect with people properly?

Do you have any unresolved issues with family or friends that need to be looked at. A lot of people have unresolved issues with parents. Especially us guys with our dads, which can lead to quite a lot of problems. This isn't easy to fix though.

Usually when I say a crutch or hiding from something, it generally means that you are not content with your normal state of mind. The reason you have that could be a million of reasons, and you choose to watch porn as a distraction from yourself, do you get what I mean? It's like you are not happy with yourself or satisfied with your life, so you look for something like porn to temporarily distract you from your life.

I know that I have had quite a few faps, where I really wasn't that horny beforehand, I was just like, "Yeah I feel like watching some porn." And then I got horny when I started watching it. It's like it wasn't sexual desire, I wanted a distraction, and used the porn as it, the sexual desire came second.

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